Why is everyone so upset with Angelina Jolie ??!?!?

Ok. so people are getting all mad and upset that she's trying to make Shiloh as boyish as possible. True, but it's her kid. When Shiloh is older and understands that she's is a female and should dress like a female there's nothing Angelina can do. I don't think that Shiloh will be lesbian when she's older. This 'phase' should pass over soon. What do you say to this ?!?!